Greetings, Miss Manners Airports are lowering the quantity of seats at the gates, and I’ve seen this from my frequent travels. When I go to the gate almost an hour before boarding, every seat is already taken, with the exception of the three next to a couple carrying their bags or the three holding someone’s coats and pillows.
They say they are holding the seat for a buddy if I inquire. Frequently, that friend either doesn’t show up at all or shows up ninety minutes after the plane is about to board.
Even though I’m not old, it hurts to stand still for more than an hour. How can I politely request to use the seat till their friend returns? I only want to sit down for a few minutes, and I would be pleased to give up the seat at that time.
PERSONAL READER: That is exactly what is polite to say.
Miss Manners believes it might also be enjoyable to simply stand there, appearing older and more fragile than you are, until they give up, if you’re game.
She understands that enjoyment varies. However, the bar is already fairly low at the airport.
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Greetings, Miss Manners My relatives frequently rave about a band that I dislike. I try to think of kind things to say since I don’t want to offend them. I then receive CDs, T-shirts, and other items associated with that band.
I placed the things away after thanking the givers, but I also feel like I’ve lied to my family. How do I politely inform them that I’m not as excited as they are?
PERSONAL READER: I like that band, but do you know which one I prefer? See how eager people are to rave about your decision instead of frantically trying to find something to enjoy in theirs.
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